Record what information you'd like included in your obituary
Your best shot at being remembered the way you want to be is writing down the things you’d want to be shared.
Write a note to those handling the arrangements
This list, of course, doesn’t cover every scenario for every person. If there’s anything else you’d like your loved ones to know about what you want out of your funeral/service, etc., (or if you just want to share your appreciation for them carrying out your final wishes) here’s a great place to do it.
Lay out your wishes for your funeral or memorial service
Your funeral or memorial service is a celebration of you — make sure it represents who you are and what you’d want.